September 28, 2021

Reimagining Perfection

Your old definition of perfection is wrong.

Perfection is one of those things that is hard to pin down. It doesn't arise out of spontaneous action b ...

September 21, 2021

The Comforts of a Prison

Nobody would say, or even suggest, that prisons were comfortable. Even Pablo Escobar, who designed his own prison for comfort, wanted to escape it. Ho ...

September 14, 2021

Bad Decisions or Mistakes

It is pretty important to know if we are being honest with ourselves or not. We've all chosen to do things that, when it didn't work out, or someone w ...

September 7, 2021

What are you Doing to Keep From Growing, All the While, Begging to Change?

Every day we tell on average 2 lies. I have also found that there are lies that, although we don't speak them, we live them. 

When I had a substance ...

August 31, 2021

Your Successes and Failures are Meaningless

Both praising successes and criticizing failures can be damaging. If you want to support someone, praise their having continued improving after either ...

August 24, 2021

You May Be Caring About the Wrong Things

This is not just about sobriety, I don't care if you can read, or if you have killed someone, if you are a millionaire, or won a Nobel prize, none of ...

August 19, 2021

You are Unique and Do Not Fit In a Box

You are unique in every way. The experiences you've had have shaped you into a complex and original person. We need you. We need you to be you!

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